Have you encountered a kind of people that never trusted your abilities? It may be from your family, friends or loved ones. It is most hurtful when your family or a member of your family belittle what you can do. Some people may have their own basis of judging you like way back college days most of your subjects in school were marked as D, You had dropped out of the unpredictable conflict in school. There are wildly successful people who had dropped out in high school. Remember Steve Jobs and the rest of his gang? They were kicked off in school and yet because of his perseverance and dedication in investing for the future; he is now one of the most successful digital creators in history. Another one, they may see you lacking in self-confidence. The unexpected repetitive failures due to your behavior in decision making. You have got the unpleasant results maybe you are lacking in acquiring the relevant source. Have you shown laziness most of the time or maybe too much pride in yourself? Let us say you never make the first move?
Whatever basis or judgments that they may have in their mind, you shouldn’t be affected at all. Most of all, that is your life and you are accountable for it. Before you set your goals, keep in your mind that you will follow these ways for yourself and not for the benefit of anyone. It is your own achievement. You can call it exclusive for yours only!
1. Build your confidence.
I know most successful people in my time now that their secret recipe for their own success is to BELIEVE YOURSELF. Remember that you’re the author of your own life and you want to make the most of it. I will give you an example: When you are dreaming being a model wearing designer clothes in a fashion magazine yet you are curvy. You felt that you are not qualified with the given qualifications. People were thinking that you have no chance to show the universe that you can. Gaze into the mirror and see how beautiful you are. You must stand up straight, chin up, be brave and put in your heart that before anything else you must love yourself. List down the qualities and characteristics that you possess and you’ll realize that you can conquer the universe!
2. You cannot please everyone in life.
You must have a high understanding that not all the people that you are surrounded by appreciating you. They have their own judgments and want to be above with anyone. Surround yourself with the people who are on the same mission as you succeed. Always help each other by exchanging ideas and learning from it. Most important, be happy and keep your positivity as you grow.
3. Set clear goals.
List down your goals in which you think is achievable and make that as your top most priority. Let us say that you are a model wanna be and you would like to be a fashion entrepreneur and a makeup artist as well. How will you be able to achieve your task if you have more than 1 goal? Remember one step at a time. You need to get a spreadsheet and a calendar. In your spreadsheet, write the things you think you can do on your own without asking anyone’s help. Being independent in making your own decision is better compared who really you are before you started. Write down the steps you needed to achieve in each day.
Highlight your accomplishments each week and track your progress. Jot down in your calendar the list of top priority errands and never forget your deadline.
4. Avoid procrastination.
If you keep on delaying things, pretty sure you’ll not achieve anything. The first thing you should do is to discipline yourself. Remember that you don’t get support from the people you love. You’ll only rely on yourself. Begin your day with a short prayer and start your day with a list of task you prepared the night before. Wake up as early as you can and practice daily exercise routine. Prepare your healthy breakfast while checking your agenda for the day and you will be guided. Try to avoid checking your social media accounts in the morning. Just discipline yourself from any distraction that will affect your daily performance. You may check once in a while, but don’t make it a habit. You will notice it’s already consumed your time.
Once you have proven to them that they are wrong, You have to thank them because you were able to surpass your struggles alone and became matured enough to handle those things.
8. Enjoy your life.
Life is short and make ways on how to enjoy every single day of your life. More important is to share the good vibes!